Gay marriage is one of those touchy subjects that I'd rather avoid like the plague, but due to its urgency and importance, I will write on this subject. So, please keep the discussions civil and respect my right to express my views. If you're going to call me a homophobe, a religious right wing Bible thumping nut, an intolerant individual, so be it, you have proved that you cannot have an adult conversation. This article will probably come back to bite me in the butt.
So I was reading the newspaper today about how the Canadian Liberal Party is planning to introduce legislation to legalize same-sex marriage in January. They hope to have this matter concluded by Summer. That is when the alarm bells went off in my mind, as the Liberals are trying to rush this matter through parliament. The next thing in my mind was, crap ... it's already January.
This is one of those issues that I cannot accept. Let it be known that in the past, I had always been a supporter of the Liberal Party. Scandel after scandel in the past (prior to this election), I tolerated; the decimating of our military, I reluctantly swallowed. Let it also be known that I am a very loyal individual, I usually stick with the stores that treat me well, and I stick with my political parties. But the gay marriage issue was so unpalatable that I lost all faith and patience with the Liberal Party. I no longer could support this party. Shortly after this period, the sponsorship scandel broke, and that was the last nail in the coffin.
So what's my beef against this whole matter you ask? I'll skip explaining the most obvious of my rejections which stems from my religious beliefs as you've probably already heard it a million times.
Open The Floodgates
Legalizing same-sex marriage will weaken marriage that much more. How long do you think it will take before polygamists figure out that they too are being discriminated against, and demand that polygamy be legal again? Not possible you say? I don't think so. Consider that polygamy is probably more 'natural' than homosexuality is. Also consider that many countries in the world still permit polygamy. One of my professors was from Algeria, and he said his brother back home has two wives. Our marriage laws also prevent adults marrying children. Shouldn't we not discriminate against them? Our marriage laws prevents people from marrying relatives. The list goes on...
Unaccountable Courts
The other issue is how undemocratic the whole situation has been. I will cite a few things from this
article. Firstly, parliament has already voted to preserve the traditional definition of marriage, not once, not twice, but three times already. When they voted on this in 1999, it passed 216 votes for, 55 votes against.
Now because gay activists didn't get their way in parliament, they took it to the courts. From the article:
Canadian courts are the most powerful and political in the western world. Despite the lack of public support, they have not been reluctant to use the vague wording of the Charter of Rights to make profound changes to the social fabric of this country. Unfortunately, many of these court decisions have been based on the judges’ own perspective rather than on that of the public or even that of clearly established law. Supreme Court of Canada Judges Claire L’Heureux Dubé and Rosalie Abella, strong advocates of homosexual rights, have expressed their opinion both in their judgements and in public speeches, that the courts must take the lead on same-sex issues because of the failure of the political process to do so.
But appointed judges have no special understanding of the issue. The reality is that judges are merely lawyers with political connections who are unaccountable in any way for their decisions. Because of this, they believe themselves free to turn on its head, the-thousands-of-years-old understanding of the institution of marriage,which transcends all cultures and religions, and is universal to mankind, since it is basic to the stability and continuance of society.
In either case, the Liberals managed to get a ruling that seemed to help their case to push same-sex marriage through. However, the ruling they passed never stated that same-sex marriage was a human right; it merely said that the government may redefine marriage, not that it must do so.
No Free Vote
The other thing that strokes me the wrong way about this is the lack of a vote which seems very undemocratic to me. This
article brings up a few good points. It notes that other minority rights battles that had been fought previously in Canada, like allowing women to vote, was put to a vote, and the majority supported it. Yet, this time with same-sex marriage, this is not the case. There is no referendum on this issue. This seems like a very important issue that should be put to a vote.
However, Paul Martin is giving us
the next best thing which he says parliament will be allowed to have a free vote where members of parliament can vote whatever they want.
EXCEPT members of the Liberal cabinet
MUST vote for same-sex marriage or else they will lose their positions. This doesn't seem free at all. Could you imagine if at work, your company says, you must believe in same-sex marriage or you'll be fired. This is definitely a huge test, vote for your principles, or vote to keep your job. It appears Paul Martin is stacking the deck as he has 37 members in his cabinet, so that's 37 votes he can count on for sure.
Write The Government
The best way to excercise your democratic rights is to tell the government what you think, and the best thing you can do right now is write a letter to the government. Even if you are for same-sex marriage, you should excercise your democratic rights and tell the government what you think.
I came across this template letter that should be useful:
[Your name and address]
The Right Honorable Paul Martin
Prime Minister of Canada
Langevin Block
Ottawa ON K1A 0A2
Dear Prime Minister:
Re: Same-sex marriage legislation
The Supreme Court has decreed that Parliament has the authority, not the obligation to change the definition of marriage.
In view of the deep societal, legal, and religious implications of marriage, I ask that you derive your authority with respect to this issue from the will of the electorate. I ask that you hold a national referendum in accordance with the 1992 Referendum Act.
If such a referendum absolutely cannot be held, I further ask that you permit your Cabinet Ministers and Parliamentary Secretaries to vote according to conscience, rather than along party lines.
Sincerely,
[Your name here]
Sending a letter to government doesn't cost anything, Canada Post ships them to Ottawa for free. Spend a few minutes to write to those in power, and you can forever change the outcome of Canada. Be aware that those who receive your letters are legally required to read each and every letter they get. If you have time, you should also write to your member of parliament. If you don't know who your member of parliament is, or you don't know their address, you can find it
here.
Whether you are for or against same-sex marriage, I urge you to write government and make democracy work. "Our democracy is gradually fading away under these leaders and so far the MPs and the Canadian people have allowed them to get away with it, but perhaps this will be the straw that broke the camel's back."
Thank you for reading, and respecting a matter that is close to my heart.